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Dec 22, 20216 min read
What are you doing New Year's Eve?
Eight dating-related questions for reflecting on the end of an old year and preparing for the start of a new one.
Dec 10, 20216 min read
The Holidays Are Actually a Great Time to Be Single.
Being alone for the holidays doesn't need to be lonely: how to surround yourself with "tidings of comfort & joy" this holiday season.
Nov 1, 20217 min read
My Least Favorite Dating Advice on the Internet
For fun, I compiled a compendium of internet dating advice that I see the most frequently and that I find the most annoying.
Sep 20, 20213 min read
Your intuition isn't wrong.
An open letter to my former self about relationship anxiety.
Sep 1, 20219 min read
My Favorite Books on Dating & Relationships
Over the years, I've read a lot of dating and relationship books. In fact, reading dating books was actually something of an embarrassing...
Aug 16, 20214 min read
5 Tips for Making the Best of Your Long-Distance Relationship
Not all of you may know this about me, but my partner and I were long-distance for about a year and a half in the beginning of our...
Jul 29, 20215 min read
My Complete Guide to Surviving a Break-Up
My 6-step guide to getting you over the ex that probably didn't deserve you in the first place. I'm a dating coach, so I consider myself...
Jul 6, 20218 min read
Why Dating Apps Don't Suck
We don't have a dating app problem. We have a modern connection problem.
Jun 18, 20214 min read
How to Journal: A Beginner's Guide
I first started journaling when I was about five - my parents gave me my first journal as a birthday present, which I’ve held on to to...
Apr 30, 20215 min read
You Don't Have a Ghosting Problem.
Let's Talk About Ghosting For a Hot Second. If you’re a modern dater, and you’re on apps, chances are, you’ve dealt with ghosting at...
Mar 12, 20214 min read
My Guide to Starting Conversations on Dating Apps
I get asked often about the “best” ways to open up a conversation with an attractive stranger who’s caught your eye IRL - and my answer...
Feb 1, 20216 min read
My Top 8 Tips for Getting More From Your Online Dating Profile
Initially, I was gently nudged into online dating by a friend of mine who had been on dating apps for over a year, and seen great success...
Dec 4, 202013 min read
My Complete Guide to COVID Dating in Fall/Winter 2020-2021
As we head towards winter and COVID cases (and lockdown restrictions!) have started rearing their ugly head, I've been getting questions...
Oct 13, 20204 min read
Start the Thing Now.
As an Enneagram 5 and former grad student, this is kind of anathema for me to say, but . . . doing a thing is different from theorizing...
Oct 3, 20204 min read
How Long-Distance Was Actually Awesome for My Relationship
Why long-distance can actually improve your relationship.
Sep 27, 20202 min read
My Guide to What Coaching with Me Is (and Isn't!)
I get potential clients reaching out to me frequently asking whether I deal with such-and-such topic, or whether my services would be a...
Aug 24, 20203 min read
First Summer in Denver
I started off the summer convinced that COVID has ruined the summer I'd wanted to have. I was really looking forward to my first summer...
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